Two questions: Have you ever felt stressed even after a long holiday or vacation? Soon after returning to the office, have you felt the need for a “mental health day?”
If so, you’re not alone.
We go on vacation for serenity – to lift our moods, change our perspectives and alleviate negative emotions.
However, even after a nice holiday or vacation, it’s pretty common to start feeling stressed when you jump into work.
Have you ever noticed how dogs behave? They stay in the moment and never seem unhappy.
Why not emulate the behavior of a dog?
The trick is to prevent stress from rearing its ugly head to keep it from ruining the benefits you received from your vacation.
Here’s how to minimize stress after a vacation:
1. Prevent phone calls your first day back
Before you leave for vacation, your automatic reply on your phone should indicate your return date, mention your preference that important matters be handled by email, and explain whom you want be contacted in your absence.
2. Shorten your first week
Return midweek. In this way, you’ll be more enthusiastic rather than dreading a heavy workload and week of problems. Prioritize the issues.
3. Work a minimal first day
Go to the office for only four hours. Consider it to be sort of an orientation to ease back into your pressures, handle any pressing issues and to plan your schedule for the next few days.
Then, take the afternoon off.
4. Work on an attitude of gratitude
The most serene professionals focus on the positive – the 90 percent of what’s going well rather than the negative 10 percent that isn’t going well. In this way, it’s easier for them to tackle the 10 percent.
So learn to keep a smile on your face by practicing an attitude of gratitude. In fact, if you haven’t already, start a gratitude list.
You’ll find you can think of 10 things are worth appreciating. Review your list. Reflect on it. Make it a regular thing to do.
5. Vary your routine
Avoid falling into a rut. Learn to keep an open mind by using the “Principle of Contrary Action.”
Keep a mental or written record of your routines. Every time you do something try to approach it differently. For instance, take a different route to the office and park in a different parking space.
Ever notice how happy your dog gets when you reach for a leash?
Sometimes people in business need a creative place at out-of-the-ordinary locations. Perhaps you have an employee whom you need to counsel. Or you might have a peer who needs encouragement.
So for discussions on difficult issues, try walking meetings.
6. Budget blue-sky sessions
While you immerse yourself in your daily routines and challenges, budget time for blue-sky sessions to dream about future plans.
Never allow the fires and problems distract you from your long-term goals.
Whether you’re a runner, walker, golfer, yogi or gym aficionado – whatever your favorite way to exercise — budget time do it regularly.
And don’t forget to exercise your spiritual and mental health.
8. Consider planning periodic mental-health days
Don’t allow depression to consume you. Take periodic days off to relax with your family, play golf, go boating, fishing, or take in a Wednesday afternoon baseball game.
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“Self-esteem is as important to our well-being as legs are to a table. It is essential for physical and mental health and for happiness.”
Author Terry Corbell has written innumerable online business-enhancement articles, and is a business-performance consultant and profit professional. Click here to see his management services. For a complimentary chat about your business situation or to schedule him as a speaker, consultant or author, please contact Terry.