Effective public speakers know the power of physical touch, says a leading expert in how to improve communication with others, public speaking and performance.

“In my humble view, there is never enough attention given to the formidable power of tactile connection,” asserts Eric Stone.

Mr. Stone is a former New York City stage and television actor, operates Speakers and Artists International, Inc. (www.publicspeakingconnection.com) in Beverly Hills, Calif.

That’s right. He suggests speakers learn the art of physical touch in a professional way.

“It assuredly dates back to our tribal heritage where constant contact was the only way to trust and thrive,” he explains.

“We trust what we can see and touch before anything else,” adds Mr. Stone.

“Politicians understand this so well and so should anyone interested in better communication and public speaking,” he points out.

He says “the act of touching solidifies your game.” 

The speaking expert provides examples:

— Shake hands with someone before you go on stage or before you begin your speech.

— Mingle by touching.

— Do the same at meetings. Make a point of holding your gaze as you touch someone’s arm or elbow and make eye contact.

— Touch objects such as furniture, a glass of water, the podium, etc., anything that belongs to the physical world.

“Spot objects in the room. See them physically not just as the mental awareness that they are there,” he explains. “It establishes your presence and grounds you.”

Mr. Stone says “it brings us back to natural living and anchors our performances and communication.”

He says touching helps you bond with your audience.

“Gravity, balance, breathing and tactile relatedness are your best allies when things signal that something could go wrong,” he adds.

“Feel the weight of your body, breathe deeply several times consciously and get on a mission to touch and hold,” he advises. “Remember: the mind can only project mental pictures and it should only operate in the background at the service of your physical self.”

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“A good speech should be like a woman’s skirt; long enough to cover the subject and short enough to create interest.” 

-Winston S. Churchill


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