So you’re about to be honored for your pro bono work, volunteerism, or for creating a foundation to fund scholarships for education. But you get stage fright or don’t know how to most-effectively frame your acceptance speech?
Join the crowd. A lot of people have difficulty in public speaking.
“Award speeches are all about being receptive and radiating with gratitude, while smiling and graciously accepting the honor from the heart in a spirit of openness and genuine feelings and emotional tones,” explains Eric Stone, a noted speech trainer (www.publicspeakingconnection.com).
“It is simply about what is true for you about the award, the people giving it to you and present with you, as well as the business or industry that you are in or cause you are representing,” he says.
Mr. Stone has been teaching since 1983, and is the principal of Speakers and Artists International, Inc.
As a former New York City stage and television actor, early in his career he studied privately under Herbert Berghof, Uta Hagen, Lee Strasberg, Stella Adler, and William Hickey.
“I am very much a target oriented coach or trainer working on key issues and problem areas related to public performance,” he explains.
That includes speech training for executives.
“Public speaking relies on very simple yet wonderfully telling ‘dynamics’ between the speaker and his/her audience,” he asserts.
“That is the true competitive edge of this style of coaching which targets ‘organic, spontaneous and authentic’ enrollment techniques not outdated ‘external’ body language techniques and frozen gestures, postures and various similes,” Mr. Stone adds. “I have found that almost every problem a speaker experiences is related to those few and simple dynamics.”
“Award speeches are all about being receptive and radiating with gratitude, while smiling and graciously accepting the honor from the heart in a spirit of openness and genuine feelings and emotional tones.”
Mr. Stone recommends finding the most-effective key words, tone and phrasing for the specific situation.
“You have to be able to see yourself say those things and find a style to say them…casual, from the heart, entertaining, emotional, formal, elegant, and sophisticated, etc.,” he points out. “There are things you see yourself say and others not. The same goes for the manner in which you voice the things you say.”
Mr. Stone’s recommends these speech elements:
- Gracious and heartfelt thanks for the organization giving you the honor.
- Acknowledgement of the special people in the audience: wife, daughter, brother, etc.
- Acknowledgement of the audience who took time out to witness the celebration.
- An appreciative awareness of those who made it possible for you to achieve the award.
- What the award means to you – including reference to the values, goals, aspirations, etc., the organization or group represents and how they inspire you.
- Stories – small personal heart-felt anecdotes to show what receiving this award means to you in your life. All from the heart so as to make it real for the audience.
He says you’ll need salient information:
- Who will be in the audience? And will need to be thanked?
- Is the event only for you or other things will be celebrated?
- Have you received any directions or information regarding the event? Specifically about your receiving honor? Logistics? How long you are expected to speak, etc.
- Who will be giving you the award? Name of person?
These are great tips to heed now — you never know when you’ll need them.
From the Coach’s Corner, here are relevant links:
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