Successful people are given points for leadership if they communicate well one-on-one and in giving public speeches. And one big difference between dynamic and poor public speakers is the ability to gesture well.
How you gesture can make or break your presentation.
If you’re nervous and use too few gestures, people in your audience won’t be inspired.
If you use too many gestures, your hand movements will be a distraction.
The dos in making gestures
1. Use gestures when speaking behind a lectern. If you don’t, you’ll risk appearing dull or nervous.
2. Open the palms of your hands when gesturing. You’ll come across as relaxed, and open and trustworthy.
3. Keep your hands strategically in front of you – from your waist to your shoulders.
4. Remember, though, to periodically let your hands drop down to your sides. That’s important most often if you feel the need to reboot your thoughts for speaking.
The don’ts in gesturing
1. Don’t hold anything in your hands. If you do, people will be distracted and they won’t focus on what you’re saying. It also leads to fidgeting.
2. Don’t point your finger or a closed fist. Most likely, you’ll be perceived as too aggressive.
3. Don’t be careless in positioning your hands. Not to be gauche, but don’t position your hands clasped below your waist in your groin area.
4. Unless you’re already a trusted motivator as a public speaker, don’t make a fist and raise your thumb. That’s known as the “Clinton thumb.” It’s most often used by politicians. While less threatening than a clenched fist or pointed finger, it doesn’t add to your presentation and is considered to be trite.
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““There are two types of speakers: Those who get nervous and those who are liars.”